Feb 14, 2023Pieces of advice to survive the first year of marriageDebomitra Das
Communication
Couples should communicate openly and honestly. It is important to express your feelings and listen actively to your partner's perspective.canva
Patience
Be patient with each other because there will be several new changes and adjustments in your new life together.canva
Compromises
Learn to compromise because it won’t always be about getting your way. Couples need to compromise both ways.canva
Forgiveness
Forgiveness is the secret to a long-lasting marriage. Everyone makes mistakes, so be prepared to let go of grudges in the marriage.canva
Scores
Don't keep a score of who does what. Your partner is not a competition so don’t keep a track of everything.canva
Time
Couples need to prioritize time for each other. It’s very important to spend quality time together.canva
Sense of individuality
You and your partner are unique individuals with your own needs and desires. It’s important to maintain your own identity.canva
Humour
Keep your sense of humour. Crack jokes to keep situations light and comfortable between you both. It’s important to laugh often.canva
Physical health
Take care of your physical and mental health as it is necessary that you prioritize self-care to ensure a healthy mind and body.canva
Goals
Couples should create shared goals and aspirations because this will strengthen your bond and help you to work towards what you're both passionate about.canva
Support
Support each other's personal and professional growth because it’s necessary to encourage each other to pursue your passions.canva
Comparisons
Don't compare your relationship to others. Every marriage and relationship is unique. You should learn to focus on your own journey.canva
Responsibility
Couples should keep their finances in check. Money can be a source of tension, so be open and work together to manage it.canva
Conflict
Avoid fighting with your partner over small grudges. Manage conflict constructively.canva
Neglect
Never neglect your friends and family by keeping your marriage on top. Prioritise them as well.canva
Celebrations
Celebrate all milestones together, whether it is big or small, and celebrate them with your partner.canva
Intimacy
Don’t think that intimacy is not important in a marriage. It is in fact, most important in the first year of marriage.canva
Spontaneity
Couples should opt for experiencing new things. Be spontaneous.canva
Gratitude
Express appreciation and gratitude. Thank your partner for their efforts and contributions once in a while.canva